On the 8th of March, I was driven by an undeniable urge to pen down these cherished memories, a heartfelt tribute to my grandmother, a truly remarkable woman, whose influence shaped my character, instilling within me a profound sense of appreciation, respect, care and love for all women.
In the vast expanse of my childhood, Grandma was the towering beacon of my life. She wasn't just my guardian; she was my closest friend, teacher, and partner in navigating life's twists and turns. Her bedtime stories fueled a burning love for books as I journeyed through the landscape of growing up.
My
childhood nights back in the late 1960s and early 1970s held a special
enchantment that I eagerly looked forward to. My family gatherings over dinner
with my siblings and cousins were about more than just the meal; they were an
occasion for good-natured banter, playful teasing, and the occasional sibling
rivalry. Nevertheless, the zenith of these evenings undeniably belonged to my
grandmother's captivating stories. Her storytelling was nothing short of an art
form, her narratives transcended mere tales; they were intricate voyages
through time and the realms of imagination. With each story she spun, she
effortlessly captured our complete attention. What truly set her apart was her
gift for adorning her stories with unexpected twists and vivid details,
rendering them all the more enthralling. On occasion, she would revisit the
same story, but with a completely different tone, style, and voice, leaving us
in rapt fascination with her storytelling versatility. These nights, brimming
with laughter and wonder, were indelibly etched into our memories, weaving
themselves into the rich fabric of our family's customs and togetherness.
There
were nights when the cozy embrace of my grandmother's storytelling would lull
me into a peaceful slumber even before the end of her captivating tales.
Drifting into the realm of dreams mid-story was a common occurrence. However,
the beauty of it all lay in my beloved grandmother's unwavering readiness to
resume the narrative where she had left off on the following evening. She
possessed a wellspring of patience and affection that she poured generously
into her stories.
The
nights my grandmother began her narratives became a ritual, a communal
gathering around the story telling hearth where every eye was transfixed on
her. In those moments, the world outside seemed to dissolve, leaving us
immersed exclusively in the captivating universe she wove for us. The way she
brought her tales to life, with that twinkle in her eye and the cadence of her
voice, was nothing less than magical.
As
the stories unfurled, time itself seemed to blur, and fatigue would
occasionally catch up with us. One by one, in a gradual succession like falling
dominos, the heads of my siblings, cousins, and myself would nod and eventually
surrender to the sweet call of slumber. It was a testament to the power of her
storytelling, its capacity to captivate our thoughts while guiding us with a
gentle touch into the realm of dreams. This enabled us to bask in the warm
familial unity until the dawn of a new day.
My
grandmother was a remarkable storyteller who effectively acted as my first
novels, especially since we had no books at home.
However,
Nanna, as we used to call her, was not only a fable-teller but also a culinary
magician who could whip up any delectable delight my heart desired. She would
not only prepare savory dishes tailored to my whims and cravings, but she also
had a fascinating talent to conjure up the most mouthwatering sweet treats.
Being naturally tall and slender, she indulged me with her culinary delights,
always insisting that I needed to eat heartily to become stronger.
Grandma’s
love knew no bounds so much so that she was embraced and adored by the entire
community. Her kind-hearted nature and the multitude of roles she fulfilled in
our village endeared her to everyone. She donned the hats of an experienced
midwife, a trusted advisor to women in their marital issues, a competent
traditional healer offering herbal treatments for a variety of ailments to
women and children. I always found joy in accompanying her in her house calls to
neighbors or relatives because, as a guest, I was always treated to the most
delectable pastries and the choicest roasted chicken piece, usually a chicken
thigh.
In
the days when I couldn't accompany my grandmother on these visits, there was a
heartwarming tradition she held dear. She would often return home with a
succulent piece of chicken enveloped in a slice of home-made bread soaked in
the aromatic stew. She always wrapped the treat in a white piece of cloth she
habitually carried with her for just such a purpose. My ritual was always to
start with the juicy meat before relishing the soaked bread. What an exquisite
treat it was, and what a cherished memory that remains etched in the treasure
grooves of my heart.
Rest in peace, Nanna. You were truly unparalleled, a cut above, the epitome of excellence. I'll cherish your memory in my heart for as long as I walk this earth.